thx for the suggestions.
@zsamz using 2x4gb 1.5v 1600mhz 9-9-9-24 rated mushkin kit (set to 1333 while trying to get CPU OC). Set the settings to what u said at 45x multi (except PLL as it cant go under 1.8v) and still BSOD...
@ilya you need turbo boost to OC sandy bridge (without TB clocks lock at 3.3) and selecting "without vdroop" just adds to the vcore setting it about 0.1 - 0.2 higher than what you set it at under load...
Edit:
Even if i set the Vcore to 1.38 on bios cpuz never shows it going above 1.29V.
Its stable at 4.3 after 16 prime95 tests but failing at 4.5 after test 1
Edit 2:
realized with disabled vdroop and lesser voltage to compensate the extra evga adds on I can get the voltage to more or less what i want...but still not stable at 1.4v 4.5ghz
Edit 3:
Solved! It was EVGA ELEET trolling me...thought it was their overclocking via OS tool but enabling it in bios makes the voltage stable enough to get 4.6ghz on 1.35v where I settled...
screenshot to come soon after a few hours of prime...
Edit 4:
did run for a few but no screeny, so here is a 1hour in screeny...