........So it's working now?!?! I'm even using that 1.70 driver there linked by JDrom that I tried like 10 times before

I'm not complaining! I cleaned out everything I could find relating to d-link from the comp, even a program I hadn't even realized was there from them. I then pointed windows right to the 1.7 driver bypassing the setup utility(like what dangtx and the d-link people recommended!) and BAM wireless networks flyin all over the place. Tried so many other drivers like this, guess this is the first time I tried it without their wireless management system?? Anyways thanks a ton guys, I can finally have internet in my humble abode!
If any other people come across issues with the D-Link DWA-552 network adapter on windows 7 I'll spell out the solution that worked for me:
-throw the cd that come's with the adapter away, very very far away.
-download the 1.7 driver from the d-link site
-go to device manager in Control panel -> Hardware & sound -> Device manager and find the network adapter with the yellow exclamation point on it (provided you have windows set up to
not automatically download drivers for new hardware)
-right click and either click update driver software, or go to properties -> driver tab -> Update drivers
-choose to install your own driver, not automatically download one from the internet with windows
-point right to the extracted 1.70 driver
-install
-profit!