Ha, I remember that MaxPC article where they put out an article claiming to have 'discovered' the variable memory, QPI, and Uncore multi on non-ES chips, quite a bit of time after the fact. Gods, that had to be embarrassing for them.
It really is a whole new ballgame, and like usual, no two mobo makers can agree on what to call everything in their respective BIOS'. The CPU is also far more important than ever, (even though a good motherboard is obviously important). It's actually pretty hard to just 'explain' it, since there are a few basics, with a whole load of footnotes and exceptions everywhere depending on what hardware is being used.
Speed for speed, the new chips WILL run hotter than the old quads. You can either invest in really heavy-duty cooling, believe the hype that the chips handle high temps better (seriously, does
anyone know what the source for this claim is?), or let your temps stop your OC's before anything else does.