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I would take the 1055T than the 965BE because the prices are nearly the same, but you get 2 extra cores. Apparently the 1055T is easy to overclock to 4.0GHz, but your mileage may vary...
I would get a Gigabyte board because I think they support their products better than ASUS. For example, my ASUS 690G was not supported for Phenom II processors while the nearly identical one from Gigabyte did. (Fine, ASUS eventually did release a BIOS for but it was 1.5 year LATE!!!)
The Gigabyte 870G board that was reviewed here did well. Get that one.
If the budget allows, get the WD Black 1TB hard drive, if not, then teh 640GB Black.
I like Corsair ram due to their stability and warranty and compatibility.
Corsair XMS3 CMX4GX3M2A1600C9 4GB DDR3 2X2GB DDR3-1600 CL 9-9-9-24 Core i5 Dual Channel Memory Kit
It is on sale right now. Ignore the Core i5 part, it will work with AMD.
I recommend the CM 212+ cooler. It is dirt cheap and does its job well.
As for video card, i would get an EVGA GTX460 1GB (AR version). It might be more expensive, but I does have lifetime warranty (if you register for it) because I think you will be keeping this computer for quite some time :)