Finally have settled down on all the parts:
CPU -
Core 2 Duo E8400 Processor - 169.29
Memory - G. Skill 8000 4gb -old system but ncix price ~59
Motherboard - Asus P5Q Pro - 148.99
GPU - XFX Radeon HD 4870 XXX 775MHZ 1GB - 264.99
CASE - CM 923 HAF - 184
PSU - Corsair TX 750 - 120
Hard drive - WD6401AALS - 99.99
CPU Cooling - Xigmatek HDT-S1283 - 49.99
I have decided to push the 8400.... I think my goal will be hitting 3.4-3.6(I am not gonna push too hard since this comp will be running most likly 24/7) Not sure how well I will do since I am new to OC and hopefully the parts are OC friendly
BTW, anyone got any good cable management guide? My first attempt on the p182 + antec
TP3-650 didn't went that well but with this HAF and tx750 I am hoping I can do a better job(got butter fingers :D )